It was
Percy Bysshe Shelley, in his essay A Defence of Poetry, who wrote that empathy is different from and goes way beyond sympathy or pity,
and requires well-developed imagination, “the great instrument of moral good.”
There is an
emerging science of empathy that is demonstrating that we are actually wired
for empathy and compassion, that empathy exists at a neurophysiological level
and that we are not just the outcome of a selfish gene. We all have the natural
potential for showing empathy or concern to others, and this can be nurtured or
crushed by the circumstances of our upbringing. But we need that affection from
birth. The development of our mind depends on interactions face to face.
Neuroscience tells us that specific brain areas respond to kindness and
compassion and there is a correlation between the size of a child’s brain and
the attention or neglect he experiences. Children who have not received
sufficient care and compassion can feel unlovable, and can be high in
self-criticism. In other words our social and developmental psychology is
affected by the way we are brought up. This of course gives us a totally
different understanding of human nature and has enormous significance for our
societies. While our religion might teach us to be compassionate and loving,
our upbringing might very well take us away from the possibility of such
behavior coming naturally to us. It then needs to be re-learned, nurtured and encouraged.
And it should be the religions that are there to bring us back on track.
“Empathy
and compassion
To the
shame of all the established religions, it has taken a secular initiative to
kick-start what the world desperately needs and what the world’s religions pretty
much all teach through the Golden Rule; that we should all be loving our
neighbors as ourselves, showing compassion for all.
The
religions’ historian Karen Armstrong was frustrated that not enough was
seemingly being done by the world’s religions to promote their own moral codes
of love and compassion. Perhaps this was a fair indictment. Compassion
manifests itself in the world, she says, not by thinking but by doing and she
wanted to bring compassion back to the very heart of moral and spiritual life.
So with the support of the Fetzer Institute and a multi-faith, multi-national
council of thinkers and leaders who helped with the drafting, the Charter for Compassion was launched globally in 2009.
It is an idea whose time had definitely come.
Compassion
literally means ‘to suffer with or alongside’ someone. We identify with you in
your suffering; we can show mercy or sorrow with you in your pain. Empathy goes
a little further and is the capacity to experience what it is like to be
someone else. We can bare our own souls and walk in your shoes to share your
suffering. That is true empathy, although the two words are often used
interchangeably. Scientifically empathy should not be possible, but it is!"
The Charter for
Compassion recently launched an International Compassionate Cities campaign,
endorsed by a US Conference of Mayors including Mayor Greg Fischer of Louisville ,
KY , and the mayors of Columbia , SC ; Des Moines , IA ; Nashville , TN ; Frankfort , KY ; Raleigh , NC ; and Westland , MI. This
initiative, says the Charter, “has the potential to inspire a fundamental shift
in our ability to thrive as human beings.”
Let's go for it. We live in such a beautiful world. Let's all help infuse it with compassion and empathy in everything that we do. That cannot be bad!
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